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Thursday, October 27, 2011

October 27, 2011

There are no words to explain the way we are all feeling....We try to stay strong for one another...It is so hard to live without you.....I pray for all who have lost a spouse or child....It has to be the hardest thing ever to deal with...

Our sunset

I have learned in this process you go from crying to anger then back to crying....Everywhere you look your reminded of something from your loved one...

I know Tommy is in a beautiful place with no pain but I still miss him dearly...There is not a day that does not go by that he is not in the forefront of what I am doing...I try and focus on the good times but somehow the day we lost him is so vivid and compelling that it is also feeling my mind....
Sunset for Tommy

I would like to tell you just how great a man he was....He protected me from the world...If people tried to upset me he would take me under his arms and hug me and say, "Don't let others misery cloud your judgment. The reason they attack you is because they have a sad life and nobody really cares about them." Then he was there in guidance of our son...He would try and talk to him but you know teenagers they know it all. But now our son realizes that his dad was right and was only trying to help him to see the real world..When our daughter was born my wonderful Tommy decided that nobody was good enough to watch her....So he quit his job and took care of her...He done a remarkable job like no dad I have ever seen....He was with her all the 13 years....He explained everything to her and always was honest about the way the world is....
He told me that "I love you Linda more than life itself...I have never experience love until I met you.... You are my world and I will love you always and forever and nothing will ever change that...He proved it over and over every day....I love and miss my husband and words cannot explain the feeling in my heart....

Sunset for our love 
We miss him terribly and we do not know what to do.....Everything is centered around our loss....He is in our mind every minute of everyday...Always will be...We love you Tommy....

Linda, Shae, & Erik

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